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Healthy Aging- Invest in a personal trainer.

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My fitness story

This is a personal status report. I’m doing something to help me stay strong.  Not preaching , just reporting what is working for me.  Don’t you hate hearing people tell you what to do?  Especially people half your age. Well, I’m well into my 70th year and not ready to give up on many more active years, You have heard how I struggle with my aging body. I don’t intend to lose my physical strength without a struggle but lately I have learned that a dilettantish approach to keeping fit is doomed to failure.

I have been a dedicated walker for years, at times logging as much as 25 miles a week, Walking is great exercise but it has some problems. It is a big time killer, Even at a fast pace, it takes a long time to walk 25 miles. I find it hard to dedicate so much time. That is not the biggest problem, however. Walking alone doesn’t stop the deterioration of your core strength.

Fighting the aging process with training

Despite, thinking that I am in good shape, bad things were happening. I was beginning to walk with a stoop (like an old man- as my wife kept telling me). I tried to remember to hold my shoulders up but it was a losing battle. Then, too, I was losing my ability to walk easily on stairs and even to get up from a chair. I didn’t feel old (it is amazing how you learn to rationalize the effects of aging) but my physical abilities were rapidly declining.

Even though I never played athletics as a child, I regarded myself as healthy and in reasonable shape. Never in my life have I consulted anyone about physical exercise, I dabbled in yoga- from books, I joined the gym at work and did the machine circuits, I was never impressed with the results and skeptical about paying for training – until now.

Asking an expert

I was networking and met a personal trainer casually. I confessed my physical deterioration and frustration and he suggested a six month program to rehabilitate my body and train me to keep fit on my own. He told me that there was no reason to accept my growing debilitation. I made the usual excuses. Too much time. I would have to take money from other activities. In the end, I sucked it up and made the commitment- not knowing what to expect. My wife even agreed to join me (we got a two for one deal).

No special equipment needed

It wasn’t what I expected, But it is working. We do squats, curls, push ups, crunches and boxing once in a while, It is all very simple. We can do these exercises at home in between our twice weekly sessions. The bottom line is that Chad has us doing nothing new. What is new is doing them regularly and under supervision. What else is new is that I am regaining core strength, At the Opera last month I easily walked up three flights of stairs without clutching the hand rail, My posture is more erect and youthful as well. And this is after less than two months. My wife is happy as well. Her back pains are gone. She is willing, if not eager for our visits to Chad’s House of Pain, as she calls it.

So that’s my story

So I am high on personal trainers and I am happy to share this experience with anybody who may be having the same frustrations as my wife and I, My experience suggests that depending on an amateur (yourself) to maintain your physical abilities as you age is reckless and foolish, I fired myself and hired an expert to turn my body around and train me to maintain my new strength, I don’t think there is a better investment for a happy retirement than keeping your body strong.

That is my healthy aging story so far. Have you got a story of your own? I would love to hear it.

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  • Hansi January 4, 2011, 11:16 am

    Ralph You are an amazing man. Keeping fit with regular exercise is definitely the key to aging well. I work-out at a local small gym doing weight training (lifting as we used to call it) four to five times a week, and bicycle around town as much as I can. This keeps me in reasonable shape and helps promote a general feeling of well being. At 63 I’m no Arnold, but at 63, neither is Arnold himself.
    FYI…My wife also tells me to straighten up and stop walking around like an old man. That’s about as much personal training as I can afford.

    • Ralph January 4, 2011, 11:25 am

      Hansi,
      If you are bicycling around LA, I’ll keep you in my prayers. If you want to stop walking like an old man, get somebody at the gym to tell you how to strengthen your core. It appears to be crunches, pushups and squats gut ask an expert. As long as you are putting in the time, you might as well get the results. Wait until you get to be my age before walking like an old man.

  • Gordie January 4, 2011, 2:34 pm

    Hi Ralph,
    Is that you in the photo up top. If, so I gotta say “‘m impressed how you just keep doing press ups like that non-stop. Lol!

    Seriously, I think it’s great that you’ve still got fire and a fighting spirit. I wish my father was like you. He’s only 69 but last month decided to get a mobile scooter because his knee hurts. That’s his only solution. I suggested he loses weight and do some exercise, even if it’s in the pool to take pressure of the knee. I know in my heart his weakening will be rapid if he relies on the scooter too much.

    So, good on you and keep it up.
    Gordie’s last Blog Post ..Live a Healthier Life in 21 Days Challenge 21DHL- Days 1-3

    • Ralph January 4, 2011, 2:58 pm

      Gordie,
      No. That ain’t me. I’ve got hair. It is frightening how quickly you can lose it when you get old. Does your Dad’s doctor give him good advice or merely facilitate his decline? You should check our John- because his girlfriend eliminated her arthritis by running.
      http://johnmcnally54.com/if-you-can-walk-you-can-run/

  • John McNally January 4, 2011, 3:18 pm

    That was a nice surprise Ralph, I was just reading through your comments when I see my name and blog link. 🙂 Thanks.

    I also felt like a youngster reading your post, I’m a whipper-snapper of 56. I can back-up what you say about core strength though. I do these exercises 5 times a week, mainly to assist my running, and help my sex life by getting a six pack. 😆

    Core strength exercises are completely free and can be done at home. I do mine in my bedroom, and have a small chart to record the totals. I do sets of crunches, sit-ups and press-ups, and use light dumb bells for upper body strength.

    It’s surprising how important core strength is. You soon notice the difference when your stomach is strong. I’m pleased to see you have caught the fitness bug as well.

    John
    Leamington Spa, England
    John McNally’s last Blog Post ..New Year’s Resolutions

    • Ralph January 4, 2011, 3:31 pm

      John,
      I feel stupid for not understanding how important core strength is. It is the story of my life. I stay stupid until it hurts too much to continue, then I get smart

  • Steve Skinner January 4, 2011, 3:19 pm

    A couple of years ago my doctor suggested adding weight training to my exercise routine; so three days a week I do about 10 – 15 minutes of lifting. If I miss a day of two I really miss it and feel it especially in the quads.
    Steve Skinner’s last Blog Post ..A Time For Reflection

    • Ralph January 4, 2011, 3:32 pm

      Yeah I know I’m slow. Rub it in.

  • Bryan McHeyzer January 4, 2011, 4:26 pm

    Hi Steve,
    There are a lot of us “older” citizens who would be very interested in what you have to say in your blog.

    I just came over from John’s blog.

    I am in my 60s and have been told to exercise to keep my strength up … exercise has never been in my daily routine as most of my life I did manual tasks … but now that I am winding down I need to look at it, if I want my mobility.

    Will need to come back here and read some of your other posts ….. when time permits

    Love the picture ….could be me as I do not have any hair left.:-)

    Cheers
    Bryan

    • Ralph January 4, 2011, 4:50 pm

      Welcome Bryan,
      My goal is to create an outrageous retirement lifestyle. To me that means staying healthy and doing all the things I always wanted to do. Since there is never enough money, everything is a challenge. Come back and bring your friends. I need all the help I can get.

  • Bob@JuicyMaters.com January 5, 2011, 3:46 am

    Ralph, your exercise choices intrigue me, with your wife working out with you…especially the boxing.

    Who wins? Since it is male/female do you let her cheat and use a cast iron frying pan, or does she have to box even Steven?

    Inquiring minds want to know.

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