(If you didn’t read part 1 you may want to read it first)
Retirement Lifestyle Design
So now I describe my role in life as designing a retirement lifestyle. I never designed a lifestyle before. I just made due with the lifestyle that came with my other life decisions. I had a job which meant that I had to live within commuting distance of work. This job had a predetermined income that controlled how much I could spend. Finally I had a perception of a society that expected a me to measure up to standards. When all was said and done, I had very little discretion in my life. I wasn’t an individual. I was a cog. I had the illusion of freedom. I could pretend to be the master of my domain but when push came to shove, I was a rat in a maze.
I didn’t even know I had a choice.
I think it is common for people to refuse to see their situations just like I did. They are blind to the real choices and pretend that they have chosen a lifestyle. They may be unsatisfied and unhappy but they see only limited options, principally finding another job that defines them differently.
At this point I leave to Tim Ferris the job of taking the blinders off people in the workplace. I wasn’t open to clear thinking about lifestyle when I was working. I don’t know how to make others see what I was blind to. Right now not having a job and discovering who I really am and how I really want to live is about the most I can manage. There is more to me than my work title but it is all hidden.
Who am I really?
What skills do I possess? What kind of lifestyle would make me happy? What skills do I need to master to make that lifestyle possible? All the questions I should have asked and answered as a twenty year old still wait for me. Am I up for the challenge?


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