What is your retirement strategy?

This is not about investments!

 What is your retirement strategy?

Choose, don't settle.

Retirement strategies means more than managing your investments. Having enough money when you retire is important but not the only thing you need to manage. Retirement can mean 10 to 30 years (maybe more) years of your life. What you do with those years will make the difference as you look back on the day you die. Retirement strategy means what you did with those years, how you handled the resources of time, life experience and accomplishment. Were those years satisfying and fulfilling? Did you meet your life goals? Did your life matter? The answer lies with you and how you met the challenge of retirement.

It’s very personal.

Retirement strategy is a personal decision. There isn’t any universal measure of success or failure. It starts with what is important to you. It can be personal and self-satisfying or universal and altruistic. It can be timid or bold. In the end, nobody else’s standards matter. You are the master of your life.

Have conviction! 

Once you decide to make a plan, you have committed to taking control of your retirement lifestyle. You won’t accept just anything. Your life is important and you will do whatever necessary to make it as you want. But what are the options. I see it like this. There are three retirement strategies that you can embrace in your retirement plan. They are all good because they represent your decisions. So long as you have considered the options and selected the one that makes you happy, any strategy can be the right one for you.

Once you pick, you aren’t stuck with your choice. You can change strategy at any time. Don’t get hung up on which is the right one. Start by picking the one that feels right. The worst thing you can do is fail to choose because when you don’t choose a strategy, you aren’t in charge. You don’t know what will happen and somebody else will make decisions for you.

Strategy One: Stick with what’s working.

 What is your retirement strategy?

Keep doing what you love.

Maintain your current portfolio of life activities, relationships and environment. Change the amount of time you allocate as needed but don’t change much else. This would be most appropriate when you are pretty satisfied with your lifestyle or it might be what you choose while you try to decide what changes you want to make.

Strategy Two: Learn some new things.

 What is your retirement strategy?

Become a master

Choose this strategy when you know that there are some parts of your lifestyle that don’t work they way you want. This doesn’t mean you change everything at once. If you find more than one deficiency then pick the one that is most important and learn something new to make it better. This could mean taking up a new activity and becoming good enough to satisfy yourself. It could mean improving on skills you already have and becoming more expert. Then change your lifestyle to include your new skills.

Strategy Three: Shake things up.

 What is your retirement strategy?

See the world!

This is the most risky because you move away from what is familiar and you can’t always get back if you find you made a mistake. It also has the most potential to transform a dull retirement into something outrageous. This strategy could mean moving to another place, traveling more frequently. It could mean making a reality out of a long time fantasy like becoming a beachcomber or a volunteer for a foreign aid program. With this one, there are ways to test out the changes on a short term basis before committing to permanent change but if you don’t feel drawn to a big change in your life, this one may not be right for you.

Your turn! 

I hope you have chosen a strategy and aren’t letting control of your life drift. Leave a comment to let me know which path you are on and how it’s going.

 

Retirement Lifestyle: It starts by thinking about retirement directions.

 Retirement Lifestyle: It starts by thinking about retirement directions.

Getting the retirement you deserve

If you are already retired you may be disappointed if you didn’t plan ahead. If you don’t make some decisions then your retirement may be disappointing. If you don’t plan your retirement directions, you can end up in the wrong place.  Use the links below to find out more about how to take control of your retirement lifestyle.

“Retirement can be a self-imposed exile from life, exhilaration and fulfillment.  On the other hand, retirement can be a time of growth, excitement and satisfaction.” 

It starts with your thinking. What do you expect and what do you think you deserve. What do you know and do you know what you don’t know?

“At every stage in life we face an incredible obstacle that limits our ability to grow and develop. We don’t know what we don’t know.”

One challenge is what you believe you can do and what you think you can’t. It’s all in your head.

“What are you good at and how did you get good? If you got good at one thing you can get good for another.”

 Than you have to make a choice.

“Senior Living or Outrageous Retirement Lifestyle: It’s all up to you.”

Finally it comes down to life balance: balancing all the important facets of your life.

 

“Life balance is managing three important areas of life – financial, health and social. Retirement puts a stress on this balance that is more significant than in earlier stages of life.”

 

My Christmas Spirit Checklist

Life is more than big plans.

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Building a retirement lifestyle means taking care of the big decisions and issues but that is only the start. It also means living on a minute to minute basis and making sure that those minutes count. The clock is ticking and no one knows how many of those precious minutes are left. That is a big problem for me and so I’m going to address it. I get really caught up in the big plans, the ones that take months or years to accomplish and while I’m working on them the short term enjoyments get forgotten. I have to schedule small trips like museums and local sights because on a day to day basis, I’m always too busy to be spontaneous. It is still a problem for me but not so much as before I made it part of my plan.

Short term is important.

These is another dimension of working in the future that I struggle with as well. You could call it enjoying the moment. In this case, the moment is Christmas and I’m fighting the impulses that tell me to just forget about it. The kids are out of the house and there are no grandchildren so it is easy to say bah humbug and keep working. I’m fighting that too because each day is a step on the path to my future and if I wait to enjoy myself until I’m there, it may be too late.

So what am I doing?

Last week I asked about five of the ways we celebrate Christmas: music, food, cards, a tree and lights. I asked you to vote your view about them and their importance to you this season. Well, my own indifference surprised me. I don’t have much Christmas spirit yet and the big day is closing in. I decided that maybe you don’t do those things because you have Christmas spirit. Maybe you have Christmas spirit because you do those things.

So I started doing.

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Yesterday I sent Christmas cards. It felt good but it was only a start. Today I started researching food for our Christmas dinner. I found a Christmas special from Gordon Ramsey The best part of it was his own version of Beef Wellington. I re-watched the video today taking notes. I’m starting to get a bit excited. I can already smell the mulled wine and the roasted nuts. I have to call the market to make sure I have the right cut of meat but there is still time. I’ve never done Beef Wellington but it is already seeming more like Christmas.

What else?

There is still the Christmas music to play. It’s in the back of the CD player cartridge. I just need to play it instead of the news while we fix dinner. I plan to pick up a tree sometime this week. Since they start trying to move them, I’m thinking I will get a good deal but that’s not the real point. Sure it is a hassle to put up the tree and even worse taking it down. The point is that that effort and commitment gives purpose to the season.

There won’t be any Christmas lights at the Carlson manse but that doesn’t mean that I don’t appreciate Mike across the street and the rest of lighted houses.

I’m beginning to feel the spirit moving and I like it.

 My Christmas Spirit Checklist

What is RalphCarlsonBlog Part 3

If you missed parts 1 and 2 you may want to read them now.

Each day is an experimental laboratory for understanding lifestyle design. No action is mandatory. I can stay in bed all day without consequence should I choose. But each decision forms my lifestyle, present and future. Exercise today and have more energy now and retain an active lifestyle longer in the future. Stimulate my brain today and promote a longer intellectual life. Engage in revenue generating business actiities nd support a richer set of lifestyle opportunities. Take the time to enjoy family and friends and reach out for social activities. Enjoy nature and the arts.

Each minute is an opportunity that will never come again and each minute is a foundation for the rest of my life. What I am able to do tomorrow is a consequence of what I do today.

If I make those decisions willy nilly, by whim or how I feel at any moment, I lose control of the future. I know that I cannot control the future and that at any moment a random action can change my life forever but since these are things I cannot control I don’t let them affect my decisions.

I know that by planning each day, I can influence the future days. Discipline in using my time is my tool to create the future lifestyle I want.  So RalphCarlsonBlog exists to document my efforts to create a satisfying retirement lifestyle and share anything that I have learned.

 

Thinking about work.

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Retirement puts work in a new perspective. When I was working, the idea was that work was part of a career. You chose a profession or a calling and it defined your life and who you were. That was always the way I thought about it when I was young and getting started with my life. It pretty much stayed that way through my career although toward the end I found myself wondering about my choices. Was there a better way to manage my life and could I manage without a job altogether. And who was I anyway?

Still I maintain a pretty conventional outlook toward work. I couldn’t get over the feeling that my job defined me. Even when I was stimulated to consider the fantasy jobs I wished for in my life, I couldn’t get past the idea of a job and working for someone. Most people don’t have an independent income and need some way to support themselves. These days, the standard is a job, selling your time and talent for money. We like to rationalize that into a career or a calling but there is nothing noble about exchanging time for money and being dependent. A job is selling out a part of your life.

There is nothing wrong with this transaction but when we turn it into something noble and call it a career, your life gets perverted. Your priorities are all off.

Who are you really?

I was shaken out of that mindset by a comment on my post about career fantasies. Hansi said “Wait a minute. I didn’t have any stinking career. I’m not defined by what I did for 30 years. It was just something I agreed to do to support the lifestyle I wanted.” I’m paraphrasing and expanding his comment a bit but I think I’m pretty close. No bullshit about how much satisfaction and community value resulted from his work. Obviously value was provided but it didn’t define who Hansi was. He didn’t need the job to give his life meaning. When did I miss that lesson?

As a recovering career seeker, I wish I might have had a better perspective about work during my ‘career’. It might have saved me a lot of frustration and heartache. It might have given me freedom to be me. It might have changed my life and put me in a better place to manage my life.

As it is, my eyes are opening now as I try to design and manage a retirement lifestyle without the support from a job or career to define me. I am winging it but slowly I seem to be growing a backbone and taking chances both in ways to make money and ways to live. I still need work but no more selling out and no more career. I’m designing a lifestyle.

 Thinking about work.