Outrageous Retirement Wishes- Who do you want to spend time with?

Make New Friends

Even if you have a healthy and active community of friends and family after retiring, you need more.  Most people find that their community dwindles after retirement.  Maybe the friends from work no longer relate the way they used to. Maybe you never developed friendships because of work and family responsibilities. It doesn’t matter the reason. If you don’t have a community of friends and family in retirement then build one. Start by asking yourself who you would like to be part of your community and them plan your life to make room for them. Ask yourself three questions: Continue reading

Originally posted 2010-08-30 09:17:38. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Ask – A Neglected and Important Reminder

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Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: 8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

The bible is an inexhaustible source for life principles and guidance. You don’t have to be Christian to find inspiration in the New Testament or Jewish to appreciate the truth in the Psalms. You don’t even have to be religious to understand how the bible is important as a foundation for the rights and freedoms embodied in the US Constitution by the founding fathers. So when I quote scriptures, I am not proselytizing, just providing a cultural resource for living life fully. Sometimes it helps to look at scriptures out of the context of religion because many times there is an added message loaded on top of the literal meaning by religious tradition or practise which distracts from the actual words. Continue reading

Originally posted 2010-03-29 08:21:43. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

More about Facebook:It’s for business too!

Facebook is for everyone.

Many people today don’t take Facebook seriously. Because of the trivial and negative postings that some people make, they disparage Facebook and the people who use it. I think that is a mistake because Facebook provides real value as a way to keep connected with friends and family. I have long been an advocate of Facebook as a place to keep connected with friends, family and associates over time and distance. For example, I have relationships with old friends from high school and made some new ones to boot.  Just because some people use Facebook in ways that damage their reputations doesn’t diminish its value for others. Responsible people can get real benefits from Social Media and Facebook in particular. I think everybody should be using it.

 

Not everyone agrees!

Some people still discount Facebook and Social Media as trivial and won’t join. They think that Facebook connections are trivial. They won’t settle for anything less than a ‘real‘ face to face relationships. If that’s the way they feel, so be it. For me, they lose but it is their life. They can live it as they choose. That is just one side of Facebook, however.

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Lately, I have been learning that other side of Facebook. I am using it to promote and build my business. I still have my personal homepage with my personal friends and likes but I have a business presence on Facebook as well. I just created a fan page which will be the focal point of my business activity. I am learning how to use my business persona in the Facebook community to promote business activities and relationships. Business depends on relationships just as much as individuals do and Facebook has provided a perfect platform to manage them. Facebook is just another tool to establish credibility and provide value for businesses as well as individuals.

My page is a work in progress while I install the missing the bells and whistles that will make it more effective. The hardest part of any activity is the start. So I have started. As I learn more, it will become a resource to link the various business activities together.

But wait, there’s more.

The other facet of Facebook that I am learning is Facebook advertising. Facebook ads are those snippets of text and image on the right side of your Facebook page. Facebook places those ads on your page using the information you provide about yourself and what you like. Advertisers can target their ads effectively because of the information Facebook collects about its users. It is a win for everybody. Right now I am still experimenting with advertising but the results are promising.

So I’m asking for a like!

So today I’m asking my readers to visit my business Facebook fan page and like it. There isn’t too much their now but I’ll be working on the other features as quickly as I can. Meanwhile, what about your use of Facebook? I would like to know if any readers use the business dimension of Facebook. I’m always looking for resources and ideas. I’ll be sharing my lessons over time as I move forward and I hope you will share as well.

How important are Connections in your Retirement Lifestyle

Memories

Ever since meeting the Richmond High School Class of ’46 last week, I’ve been thinking about how important connection become as you get older. Early in life you generally have a mission. It may be career. It may be your kids. It may be impressing people; living in the right neighborhood or driving the right car. For me it was all of the above and important as they seemed at the time, it was all superficial. Part of my mission in creating my retirement lifestyle is untangling all those competing drives and finding the ones that really matter. The kids are out of the house. They have pretty much decided their own life missions. Our relationships are firmed up. They are either good or bad. Changing them now will be a big task.  So now what?

Without those connections, old age can be empty.

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An Outrageous Retirement Lifestyle Saturday

Online relationships are wonderful.

The opportunity to share thoughts and experiences with people who are too far away to meet in person is invaluable. The web facilitates meeting and actually getting to know people with different experiences all around the world. Still nothing ever matches the impact of face to face conversations; meeting people in person, shaking hands, and   seeing how thoughts express themselves through facial expressions and tones of voice. Magic happens. Continue reading