Check out the Coots!
One of the things you recognize as you get along in life is that there is nobody out there taking care of you or evem thinking about you. They aren’t worrying about helping you and they aren’t looking for any suggestions about something they should be doing. If you want them to do something even if it is for their own good, it will never occur to them on their own because they are too busy screwing up their own lives to be bothered with screwing up anybody else’s (unless the stars converge and they can accomplish both at the same time).
You have to flat out tell them. Continue reading