How to Keep Your Thinking Young!

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Age is an attitude and not a physical condition

The face I see in the mirror when I shave is not how I feel. I don’t really accept the wrinkles and the white hair as me. I do my business and get on with life just like always. As I go through the day, I’m no different from the 30 year old I once was that hated being carded at the liquor store. My face doesn’t define me now anymore than then. More important, I don’t see my face most of the time and so I can be whatever I think I am. I plan on staying young. Continue reading

Originally posted 2010-09-08 09:52:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Retirement: The myth and the reality

I ran across this contrarian view about retirement recently. I’ll tell you where I found it later. Right now I’m interested in your take on the quote. Have we been sold a bill of goods?

1. Retirement is Worst-Case-Scenario Insurance.

Retirement planning is like life insurance. It should be viewed as nothing more than a hedge against the absolute worst-case scenario: in this case becoming physically incapable of working and needing a reservoir of capital to survive.

Retirement as a goal or final redemption is flawed for at least three solid reasons:

a) It is predicted on the assumption that you dislike what you are doing during the most physically capable years of your life. This is a nonstarter—nothing can justify that sacrifice.

b) Most people will never be able to retire and maintain even a hotdogs-for-dinner standard of living. Even one million is chump change in a world where traditional retirement could span 30 years and inflation lowers your purchasing power 2-4% per year. The math doesn’t work. The golden years become lower-middle-class life revisited. That’s a bittersweet ending.

c) If the math does work, it means that you are one ambitious, hardworking machine. If that’s the case, guess what? One week into retirement, you’re be so damn bored that you’ll want to stick bicycle spokes in your eyes. You’ll probably opt to look for a new job or start another company. Kinda defeats the purpose of waiting, doesn’t it?

I’m not saying don’t plan for the worst case—I have maxed out 401(k)s and IRAs I use primarily for tax purposes—but don’t mistake retirement for the goal.

Do we need to rethink retirement?

The passage on retirement above is lifted from a book about lifestyle design. I think the general philosophy is that instead of setting work and income as an objective, you set out to live a lifestyle that makes you happy. Work and income is involved but in an integrated  way. Income is not the objective. Income is the means to an objective. I don’t know if I am buying this but it is making me think. What I do know is that what our society is selling right now is not working. It is breaking down before our eyes. Jobs make people dependent which might have been acceptable when employers (companies) were stable. These days, what company do you trust to be around when you retire? Can you afford to be dependent?

Do we need to rethink life?

Today, I’m fishing. I’m digesting the quote above and trying to get into the rest of the book. Maybe you know the book and recognize the discussion. Maybe you don’t. Either way, I am interested in your reaction. What do you think about retirement planning? What would you do differently (or what changes have you made) based upon today’s economy. What advice would (do) you give young people who are just starting their lives? And if you don’t recognize the passage but want to know how to become part of the new rich, just follow the link.

 Retirement: The myth and the reality

Originally posted 2010-12-13 08:07:10. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Making your retirement wishes happen – A Strategy for action

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Step 1: Visualize your perfect retirement day

Don’t hold back. Dredge up the most fantastic vision of your perfect retirement day and write down all the details. Imagine yourself living that day. Who are the people you are spending time with, Where are you? What do you do? It can be extravagant or not. What is important is that you can feel the emotion and how much you want that perfect day. It is fishing with your son? Is it playing golf with buddies? Is it hiking in the mountains, reading in your ocean-front cottage? This is your retirement lifestyle.   Make it as detailed as you can. Feel it then ask yourself. Continue reading

Originally posted 2010-09-10 09:17:06. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Retirement Advice: Try Something New

Personal Development 101

A year ago I was still an employee. I was chaffing at the limitations of that role and some personality conflicts that would eventually convince me to retire. At that point, however, I was not feeling like a ‘short timer’ as we used to say in the Army. I was still committed to my job and employer. The task at hand was a speech to an industry group. I had been a regular speaker to this group over the past 20 years. I wasn’t uncomfortable about doing it but I did feel that my skills could be improved. My style was authoritative and I never persuaded anybody to change their thinking. I just lectured.

Add Some Humor

I decided this time to change myself and improve my technique. This involved a different method of organizing the talk which is a normal part of my skill set and telling a joke which is not. I decided that just because I never had been able to use humor in my talks and believed myself unable to relate to an audience through humor, I was going to do it anyway. After all, what is the worst thing that could happen? If people didn’t laugh then it would be just like my other talks. My talk went well. People laughed at my joke and got more involved in my talk.

Lifestyle Design: Growing my vision of myself

This was my first acceptance of the idea that I can change who I am. I began to believe that my definition of myself only set limits on what I could achieve. It did not identify my potential. I am capable of more than I think I am. This is the way I am dealing with my retired life. What I think I am or am capable of doing is only a starting point. I am a blank slate ready to fill with my outrageous retirement story. I am still constantly struggling to get past the limits I place on myself and focus on the person I want to be but I also surprise myself with what I can do.

Don’t Limit Yourself

I think that we all have a person inside of us with amazing abilities. The only thing keeping that person hidden is our limiting belief in who we are. Any time is a good time to open your thinking and be that person but retirement is special because there are no longer outside forces telling us what to do. What do you want to be? What would you like to be remembered as? Do you want to change who you are? What changes are you making to be the person you want to be whether in retirement or anytime? Share your thoughts or feelings in a comment.

Originally posted 2010-09-17 08:22:32. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Retirement: What gets you up?

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It’s over! Sunday I set the clocks back when daylight savings time ended. I used to look forward to the end of daylight savings time just for that one extra hour of sleep. No more. This year without the rigid schedule of a job, the time change is nothing more than a regulatory quirk. I can ignore it if I choose. Retirement means that I can get up when I want.

This raises a whole new issue. In my working days, getting up was not an option. I was committed to spending 8 hours a day at a location of my employer’s choice and my prime objective each morning was to deliver myself to that location whatever it took. Mostly that meant dragging myself out of bed and showing up at the job site. I didn’t want to get up most days but what I wanted was irrelevant. I didn’t have control. I put the best face on the situation I could. I pretended. I said I liked my job. I said I liked my coworkers. And so for 35 years I got up every morning and went to work. Continue reading

Originally posted 2010-11-08 09:12:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter